Couples Coaching in Boulder for Deep Connection, Growth, and Lasting Love

✨ This Work Is for You If:

• You’re tired of waiting for connection to feel right again

• You’re stuck in emotional and relational patterns you can’t quite name, but can absolutely feel

• You know there’s more possible in your love—more depth, more heat, more truth

• You're ready to stop waiting and become the lover you long for… the one who can create a relationship of wild possibility

This is not analysis. This is deep work that starts in your body and stretches into every part of your life.

Whether I’m working with you alone or with Jen and me together, this is a space where you are invited to take full ownership of your experience, power, and love.

And watch what happens from that foundation. 

💡 The Approach 

Most people wait to be seen, to be loved, to be chosen.

But sacred partnership begins with a different move: becoming the seer. Becoming the source of the love you crave. Letting yourself be visible to your partner—but even more, to yourself. Transforming your nervous system and inner paradigms around connection and love. From there, your capacity to give and receive love can take off. 

I support you (and your partner) to:

• Take full responsibility for your inner world—your nervous system, your attachment style, your reactivity, your longings

• Build relational safety through sovereignty, not self-abandonment

• Learn how to give and receive love without keeping score

• Cultivate fire, polarity, and erotic truth without sacrificing security

This work is about moving from complaint to creation. From patterns of protection to postures of possibility.

🔄 What the Work Looks Like

Each individual or couple's journey is different.

You may receive:

• 1:1 work and/or couples sessions through Zoom or in person in Boulder, Colorado

• Somatic coaching (regulating your nervous system, rewiring deep patterns)

• Shadow work (reclaiming exiled aspects of power, truth, eros)

• Polarity + tantra practice (deepening your range, connection, and fire)

• Attachment repair

• Movement and embodied relating

• Archetypal integration and purpose alignment

• Medicine work and psychedelic integration

When working together with Jen, we may also include:

• Co-facilitated sessions with all four of us

• Individual sessions with each of us

• In depth trauma healing

• Immersive in-person retreats in Boulder or abroad

• Kink, tantra, and sacred erotic ritual

📅 Structure

We begin with a gifted 90-minute session with me (Nick). From there, we explore what’s needed, and whether solo or co-facilitated work is best.

I offer:

• Session-by-session work to begin

• Private intensives (in Boulder or destination-based)

• Immersive 6–12 month containers for high-level couples

• Medicine sessions as part of ongoing coaching containers

The full co-facilitated container with Jen and I —"Intimacy & Alchemy"— includes long-format sessions, travel-based immersions, somatic integration, medicine sessions, and full-spectrum support. It is entirely customized for the couple. 

This is not a casual commitment. It’s a rite of passage.

🔄 It Starts With You

A lot of couples are looking for tools. But transformation doesn’t come from tools. It comes from becoming someone new.

Someone who no longer abandons themselves. Someone who stops negotiating for worth. Someone who becomes love—fierce, clear, boundaried, embodied.

If you’re ready to become that, together—we are here.

👉 Apply for a Gifted Coaching Conversation →

This is real time, real presence, and real coaching. I don’t offer these sessions to everyone, but if it’s meant to happen, you’ll know- and so will I.

Still unsure? Reach out. I’ll help you find the next step, even if it’s not with me.