Why You Keep Attracting the Same Relationship: Nervous System Habits Behind Your Love Life

If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners or repeating painful dynamics in love, it’s not a personality flaw—it’s a nervous system strategy. Learn how somatic healing and Imago theory reveal the unconscious relationship patterns keeping you stuck—and how to shift them.

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The Sacred Role of Healthy Anger in Relationships: Boundaries, Safety, and Nervous System Healing

Learn how to express anger in relationships in a healthy, connecting way. This somatic approach to anger management explores boundaries, blame, codependency, and nervous system safety—helping you build trust, emotional maturity, and deeper connection in love. Written from Boulder, Colorado.

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Couples Therapy vs. Relationship Coaching in Boulder

Curious whether you and your partner need couples therapy or relationship coaching? This post dives into how to choose, and how trauma fits into the picture. While therapy often dives into past trauma and mental health, coaching focuses on tools, communication, and embodied growth in the now. If you’re seeking support to create a thriving relationship—not just fix what’s broken—relationship coaching may be the path for you.

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